Some things I don't like to see happen during meetings:
- Using laptops to check up on e-mails, send instant messages, etc
- Constantly checking a cell phone - and even answering during a meeting
- People talking to each other while you are talking
- Reading or writing non-meeting-related materials
- Knitting (yes, one developer used to knit during meetings!)
Apparently, it's called "Continuous Partial Attention" and some people consider it not only appropriate, but an effective way to increase productivity.
Silly me, I just called it rude.
See:
http://www.scottberkun.com/essays/essay51.htm
http://radar.oreilly.com/archives/2005/06/supernova_2005_2.html
http://joi.ito.com/archives/2004/03/29/continuous_partial_attention.html
http://www.inc.com/magazine/20020101/23805.html
http://www.well.com/~neal/
http://www.smartmobs.com/archive/2003/01/03/multitasking_be.html
http://www.nytimes.com/2001/01/30/opinion/30FRIE.html?ex=1143262800&en=787e61f240894d61&ei=5070
http://gilbane.com/blog/archives/2006/03/post.html
http://getreal.corante.com/archives/2005/07/01/linda_stone_at_supernova_continuous_partial_attention.php
http://www.workingforchange.com/article.cfm?ItemID=19475
http://www.roughtype.com/archives/2005/06/continuous_part.php
http://www.stickyminds.com/news.asp?ObjectId=14495